Growing to maturity

..until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. Ephesians 4:13

Have you ever been with a baby who is yelling their head off trying to make you understand what they want?  You know exactly what they want and it may be what they need but at that particular moment you cannot, for very good reasons, give them what they are demanding. Today we were driving home with our granddaughter and she was hungry but we couldn’t stop; she would just have to wait till we got home. She couldn’t understand that and you could see in her eyes that she did not know why we were not responding to her very obvious demands. 

Sometimes we can be like this with God and we go on and on at him and he knows exactly what we want or even need but for very good reasons we cannot have it. I remember the story of a church in USA which was desperate to put an illuminated big red cross on the top of their church. They felt this was a great witness to the Lord in their area and they prayed and raised money and eventually after great difficulty they were able to put up their illuminated red cross. They felt they had overcome all difficulties and been victorious. The next day the local airport contacted them and demanded the cross be removed immediately as it was a serious hazard to aircraft taking off and landing at the airport. Sometimes there are very good reasons why we do not get what we want.

There are times for overcoming but there are also times when we need to stop and ask God if there is a reason why we are not getting what we want or even need. It takes maturity to wait or even to realise that not getting something can be better for us in the long term.  God is not playing games with us. He will tell us if we will not be getting what we are asking for or have to wait for it. His ways are not our ways (Isaiah 55:9). It all comes back to trusting God that he wants to give us good things but like all good parents his idea of good and ours may not be the same and his timing and ours may very often be different.

Today if you are waiting for something, stop going on and on at God. He knows. Instead start thanking him that he will provide everything you need and a lot of what you want but in his timing. You can trust him. His way really is perfect