Education in God's hands

There has been some correspondence recently on a small corner of Facebook surrounding an article written on the BBC website about Christian education and in particular the use of ACE (Accelerated Christian Education) as a school curriculum.

Now I would be the first to agree that as a curriculum ACE has some difficulties but to say, as some would suggest, that it is ‘a system of indoctrination for fundamental and anti intellectual ideology’ or ‘fascist ideology wrapped in Christian language’ is giving the system more kudos than it deserves.

I would rather my children were educated using ACE than brought up in a system that believes nothing, has few morals and no values; a system that permits everything and then wonders why there are so many problems created by the freedom it cherishes so much.

I may be thought to be narrow minded because of these statements. The reality is I am very broad minded because I believe in a God whose love knows no bounds and whose plan and purpose for both individuals and mankind is so good, so awesome, so incredible and so far reaching that it is worth pursing with an energy and passion.

God does not want us indoctrinated into some sort of religious system and he certainly does not want to limit our knowledge, understanding and experience. God wants to expand our minds from the limitations of human knowledge and experience to the endless possibilities available to those who dare to see things his way.

ACE may be fallible and ‘narrow’ but it has the potential to open minds not only to God himself but also to the wonders of an awesome God who loves his creation because he made it. Creationism is not the last resting place of a few deluded, educationally lacking, intellectually challenged individuals but the only possible conclusion to a universe finely tuned and perfectly balanced for life on earth.

Scientists both Christian and non Christian marvel again and again at the precision of the dimensions and make-up of Earth, our solar system and the universe. It takes a far greater leap of credibility to believe in the random creation of the universe than a universe designed by an awesome Creator, smarter and infinitely more intelligent than his creation.

It is interesting that those who are most vehemently opposed to ACE and sometimes Christian education as well are those who want to exclude God from their lives and the planet. Unfortunately God is too big and too loving to permit that. He never has and never will wash his hands of any of us but will pursue each one of us extravagantly, recklessly and relentlessly till our dying day. His grace and love know no bounds.

ACE may be flawed but God is flawless, loving, kind, good, intelligent, gracious and everything than anyone from any culture, nation or time could ever desire. In him and him alone are found ‘all the treasure of wisdom and knowledge’ and he and he alone will satisfy our very souls. 

Psalm 18

David was not only a great king and ‘a man after God’s own heart’ but also an incredible poet.

Psalm 18 is one of those psalms where David just lets rip his poetic creativity and powerful imagery flows from his pen. David had been delivered from so many enemies; not only Saul in his bloodthirsty lust to kill him but also the armies of the surrounding nations. David had complete confidence that God could and would deliver him from them all.

This all started with a young man who stood fearlessly, armed only with stones and a sling, facing a giant who had intimidated every seasoned Israelite soldier. David was not an arrogant youth but a confident young man, confident not in his own abilities but in his God who had delivered him as a shepherd boy from the lion and bear.

David took this confidence in the Lord out into the desert where he hid from Saul’s bloodlust. He may have sheltered in desert strongholds, behind rocks and in caves but he knew his real rock and stronghold was the Lord. He and he alone could save him ‘from the cords of death that entangled him’.

David knew that if he cried out to God in his distress, God would answer and he would come down in a full display of awesome might calling upon all creation to deliver his precious son. The writing is exquisite. The mental pictures that are conjured up of creation trembling as the Creator comes forth with fire, smoke, clouds, darkness, rain, lightning and thunder  are incredible.

The Creator God parts the clouds and rides the cherubim, the royal attendants, as he comes to rescue his beloved one who is struggling against enemies too powerful for him who are threatening his very existence.

God reaches down from on high and lifts his precious one out of the deep waters that he is drowning in and from which he cannot escape and places him in a spacious place. He is no longer confined by the cords of death and their entanglement but he is liberated to live in openness and freedom.

The first section of Psalm 18 starts with a declaration of David’s devotion to the Lord and ends with an assurance of God’s delight in him. It is because of this delight that he rescues him from his enemies. This is not an irritated God coming to rescue a wayward child who has got into trouble again but a devoted father coming to rescue his beloved son who is being harassed by powerful enemies. The Lord comes in might, majesty, power and authority to overthrow every enemy using all of his creation to do so.

The imagery in this psalm is powerful and is a great assurance to us that if we cry out to God in our affliction, he can and will deliver us from every negative circumstance that would try and entangle us and he does this out of incredible personal devotion to each one of his beloved children.

The wonders of creation

For in him all things were created: things in heaven and on earth, visible and invisible, whether thrones or powers or rulers or authorities; all things have been created through him and for him.  He is before all things, and in him all things hold together. Colossians 1: 16 – 17

Science is not one of my strongest subjects. I have difficulty with chemistry and all those elements, atoms and molecules. I can’t make much sense of it though I do not doubt its existence or who created it all.

The universe is an awesome place full of magnificent galaxies, star systems, nebula, worms, planets, moons, comets, meteors and goodness knows what else. I can’t make much sense of all that either and though I have never seen it I do not doubt its existence given the incredible photos the scientists produce and knowing who created it all.

There are scientists who understand these things very well, as much as any man can and some of them also are convinced who created it all. John O’Keefe an astronomer at NASA says, ‘We are, by astronomical standards, a pampered, cosseted, cherished group of people….. If the Universe had not been made with the most exacting precision we could never have come into existence. It is my view that these circumstances indicate the Universe was created for man to live in.’

How amazing is that?

Various scientists are also convinced of this. They say that the relationship between sun and Earth is perfect for all creation to live and flourish here. The atmosphere of Earth is also perfect for life here. Apparently there are about two dozen parameters of the universe that if altered even a tiny bit would prevent life on Earth from existing.

For those of us who believe that God is the Creator of all of this, it comes as no surprise.  Nevertheless it is mind-blowing. It is all so vast and incredible but that is our God.

Jesus too showed us that he is Lord over creation. He altered the molecules of water to turn it into wine, he commanded the wind and waves to be still, he altered the law of gravity to walk on water and he conquered death by not only commanding Lazarus and others to rise up and live but by doing so himself. This is our God.

In the midst of our trials and difficulties we have a God of incredible love and kindness who can speak into our circumstances and command them to be still, to change, to be healed. If Jesus could tell Peter to go and catch a fish and take a coin out of its mouth which was the exactly the right amount to pay the temple tax, I think he might be able to help us in our financial difficulties!

I love what John O’Keefe says that we are a ‘pampered, cherished, cosseted group of people.’ God is so kind to us, he cares about us. He may be the mind-blowing God who created a universe that I and I suspect most people cannot even to start to get their heads around and yet he cares about the everyday details of our lives.

Too often we do not invite God’s intervention in our lives because of some sort of misguided desire for independence or we simply forget. When we do ask for his help, guidance, provision, wisdom or miracle it comes so beautifully, so gently, so lovingly and so kindly that we wonder why we never asked before.

I cannot claim to understand any of it whether the incredible creation of a vast universe in which tiny planet Earth sits so perfectly or God’s wonderful hand of grace on my life but all I can do is sit in awestruck thankfulness to my magnificent, majestic, marvellous Creator and God. 

Psalm 8

Psalm 8

Then God said, ‘Let us make mankind in our image, in our likeness, so that they may rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky, over the livestock and all the wild animals and over all the creatures that move along the ground.’

So God created mankind in his own image,
            in the image of God he created them;
            male and female he created them.

God blessed them and said to them, ‘Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and over every living creature that moves on the ground.’ Genesis 1: 26 - 28

Psalm 8 is one of those wonderful psalms of David which praises the Creator and his wonderful creation. You can imagine David sitting looking up at the starlit Milky Way marvelling at the wonders of the heavens.

Several years ago we went to Namibia and stayed out in the desert in a remote guest house. Electricity was provided by generators so there was little light pollution. We walked a short way up the untarred road by the light of the moon and gazed at the night sky. It was absolutely stunning. Stars hung so brightly that it felt as if you could reach up and pick them. The sky was covered in stars and planets, far more than I had ever seen before even in a dark place in Britain. It was as if the heavens were aglow with tiny lights.

It must have been a night sky of such beauty that David gazed with wonder.  He marvelled that God ordained praise to overthrow every enemy not from the powerful, rich and famous but from infants and children.

As he considered the glories of the heavens he was amazed that God should even remember, let alone honour or even consider puny man. Man is the apex of God’s creation, made in his image and created only a little lower than the heavenly beings, the angels.

In this space age we have some understanding of the heavens that David did not have yet it is this very knowledge that we have acquired that should make us wonder afresh at man’s position in the creative order. As telescopes and space probes reveal ever more amazing sights in the heavens; black holes and star systems, nebula and exploding gases we realise how awesome is this creation and therefore how truly incredible is the Creator.

Yet even more amazingly, God has assigned to man the most wonderful honour of ruling over this breathtaking creation in subordination to God himself. David remembered man’s original call given to Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden.  How far short mankind has fallen from this God given mandate.

However the writer of Hebrews in recalling these verses (Hebrews 2: 8 – 9) shows that their ultimate fulfilment came in Jesus Christ and that through him mankind will once again fulfil their destiny.

Next time you have opportunity to gaze at the night sky, marvel again with David at our awesome God and his amazing creation and remember our true calling to rule over this creation with love and compassion and with the wisdom of God not to exploit and manipulate it for our own ends but to steward it for God’s glory.

Psalm 23

This psalm of David’s is probably most people’s favourite and the best known psalm. It is used extensively at funerals and weddings and anyone who has had some exposure to church or the Christian life will be familiar with it.

The imagery it uses is comforting and we can easily identify with the ideas that David expresses. David was a shepherd both before and after his anointing as king by Samuel. It was a great training ground for a future king as he learned to depend on God to help him protect and look after his sheep. Here he came to understand what it meant to be a shepherd – king; a concept familiar in the Middle East in that time.  So many of the great men of faith in the Old Testament such as Moses and David spent some time being shepherds in preparation for leading God’s people.

Jesus called himself the Good Shepherd and there are frequent references in the Bible to God’s people being sheep. This is so appropriate – sheep need a shepherd and as God’s people we need the Good Shepherd. Independent living does not work for us any more than it works for sheep. Sheep never live alone, they are always in a flock and as believers we are never called to walk alone but to be part of a fellowship of other believers dependent on the Good Shepherd.

Sheep need guiding and looking after – a shepherd keeps an eye on his sheep and leads them to good pasture and quiet waters which is just what sheep need. Sheep panic when attacks come and a shepherd protects them. Sheep need shearing once a year otherwise their coats become burdensome and hot. There are times when God needs to prune or cut us back from things that have become burdensome to us.

We all know that Middle East shepherds lead their sheep; they don’t herd them in front of them. Sheep follow the voice of their shepherd, no one else, just as we follow Jesus. If we do this he will guide us in right paths and we will not dishonour him with poor lifestyle choices and behaviour.

Shepherds tend to every aspect of their sheep’s needs and well being. Jesus looks after his people and will restore and refresh us when necessary. So often we look to the world to do this but Jesus truly knows our needs and he alone can ‘restore our souls.’

Even in dark times Jesus is right there with us and we need fear no evil. Jesus has overcome the enemy completely and totally. Sometimes when under attack I think we try and defeat Satan again but he is already defeated; what we need is to apply the victory of Jesus in our situations and see the devil’s assaults fail. The shepherd’s rod and staff protected his sheep from all attacks. Jesus victory over sin and death is sufficient to overcome every dark time.

The final verses of this psalm are such a source of inspiration for us. We see a great feast laid out for us with our defeated enemies watching enviously. We are anointed for service. This is a wonderful picture that even when surrounded by enemies God provides and inspires us. His favour and anointing rest upon us. Our cup overflows; there are no half measures in the Kingdom and this is forever. God’s goodness, love, mercy and grace will never leave us and we will spend eternity with him.

What a great psalm!

Jesus is the Son of God

On the terrible day that Jesus was crucified on the cross, it must have tested the faith of all his disciples and followers to the core. Despite Jesus telling them several times that this was exactly what was going to happen, the reality of it just hadn't sunk in.

Why was Jesus, the Son of God, the Messiah being crucified like the common criminals that hung on his left and right? Surely if he was the Son of God the angels would come and rescue him or why did he not just come down from the cross like his mockers suggested?

How terrible to not just witness Jesus' crucifixion but to have to listen to the taunts and scorn being heaped upon him by the religious leaders and passersby.

Many believers must have turned away from Jesus that day. Their faith was tested and they gave in to doubt and unbelief. By the day of Pentecost there was only 120 believers left praying. Where was everyone else? Jesus had spent three years miraculously ministering to every hopeless situation and circumstance, teaching thousands about their loving heavenly Father yet at the sight of Jesus on the cross, most abandoned him.

Even when darkness covered the earth. Even when Jesus cried out in a loud voice as he gave up his spirit which was impossible for a dying man suffocating  on a cross. Even when the temple curtain was torn in two from top to bottom, no one expected anything more from the Son of God. That was it - all over. 

The brave Joseph of Arimathea just wanted to give him the best burial possible in his own brand new tomb. It took courage to go to Pilate to ask for the body. Having buried him he sealed the tomb to make sure no one got in and desecrated it. The faithful women wanted to make sure his body was properly embalmed either that day or after the Sabbath. Even the guards were only placed to make sure the sealed tomb could not be broken into because the religious leaders did not want the disciples faking a resurrection.

No criminal crucifixion though, no sealed tomb, no guards, no disbelieving disciples or followers could stop Jesus rising in triumph from the dead because Jesus is the Son of God. What God has purposed will happen. Jesus overcame sin and death and made a way for everyone born on the planet to come and know their loving heavenly Father and Creator - just as planned. 

Father forgive us when we lose faith in the face of difficulties that seem overwhelming. Help us to persevere and trust you because you are the Christ, the Son of the living God and nothing is impossible for you. Amen.

Home

But our citizenship is in heaven Philippians 3: 20

Set your mind on things above not earthly things Colossians 3: 2

We were on our way home after a long journey round South Africa. We stopped for petrol just before the last leg of the journey – and the car broke down. Several hours later we were towed back the way we had come to a garage that could fix our car.

I cannot tell you how upset I felt about going away from home. I had been greatly anticipating getting back to our house, our things, the place where I feel most comfortable and at ease. Now not only were we not going home, we were driving in the completely opposite direction.

All of us are destined for our real home – heaven and if we are confident that is where we are going we too should look forward to it with great anticipation.  However the reality is that many Christians secretly believe that heaven will be boring; sitting around all day singing worship songs, maybe twanging a harp and hoping they can summon up enough enthusiasm to ‘worship the Lamb’.

Of course nothing could be further from the truth. As James Garlow says:

Take your deepest longings. Think of what you crave, what fills you with delight, joy you've never experienced but yearn for just the same. Remember your longing for home, for a lover of your soul, for the contented wholeness that leads you to the place you've never been yet can’t forget – the place where your every desire is satisfied more abundantly than you've ever dreamed. Heaven is that home.

That is the reality. The most wonderful thing is that we will be loved unconditionally, affirmed, appreciated and greatly valued just for who we are. Imagine that. No ulterior motives, no control, no manipulation, no rejection. Just pure love.

We will  be reunited with all the people we love starting with Jesus but including all our family and friends who have given themselves to serving the Lord. We will have eternity to get to know one another better but most of all to get to know Jesus and our loving heavenly Father and surely that will take eternity.

Out of that will flow the most awesome worship from hearts poured out in adoration to their Saviour and God.  Thousands upon thousands of voices raised in unity to honour and worship the King of Kings and Lord of Lords. Nothing dull or boring about that.

There will be certainly be no opportunity to become bored in any other way. Mankind was created to look after the earth in all its amazing diversity and beauty and the new heavens and the new earth will be perfect just as God created them to be not tarnished in any way by sin. There will be wonderful ways to serve and work in a deeply satisfying, fulfilling and stress free manner.  Think of all the things you would love to do and then imagine all the endless possibilities to explore with the kiss of heavenly perfection on them. That is just the start of the wonders of heaven which are far beyond my imagination either to think of let alone write about.

Best of all will be the deep sense of being home with the ones we love and who love us. We are but pilgrims in this present earth; our destination is heaven where all will be well because the Creator of all things dwells  in great glory with his Creation – which includes you and me - his loved ones. 

Death the final destination

 Jesus said, ‘I am the resurrection and the life. The one who believes in me will live, even though they die.’ John 11:25 – 26.

Death like heaven and hell is not usually a subject discussed in Western society if at all possible. Yet as J John says the most undeniable of all statistics is that life is 100% fatal.

However despite its certainty, most people will go to any lengths to not just avoid talking about it but also to avoid the event as well. When it becomes inevitable people will usually be overcome by fear based on uncertainty.

The one group of people for whom this should not be the case are Christians. Thanks to Jesus we can have full assurance that the grave is not our final destination – heaven is.

However it is amazing how far people will go to try to ignore God in their beliefs.   Many today confidently assert that there is nothing after death. Not only does life end, so does existence. The problem with nothing after death is that when the believer of this hypothesis dies, it will be too late to find out they were wrong. If there is indeed life after death, their eternal destination is settled and it may not be the choice of their dreams.

Someone told me the other day all about the aura or incandescence lingering around a dead body for three days after death. What is the evidence for this?

The evidence for heaven or hell however is great. The Bible frequently talks about death and the afterlife in both the Old and New Testaments. Jesus very clearly explained that heaven is the eternal destination for those who believe and trust in him.

In addition there are many many people who have had ‘out of body’ or ‘near death’ experiences. All of these seem to back up the Bible’s version of life after death. No one talks about their aura hanging around the body for three days and no one says everything just went black and I ceased to exist. 

However visions of heaven, Jesus, family members who have already died and yes even hell have been told by far too many people to be ignored. It might be nice to think they are all wrong especially if you are determined to ignore God but the evidence is pretty overwhelming.

The comfort that comes both to the dying and those remaining that heaven is not just a reality but also their own destination is too good to ignore. Anyone who believes that Christians are deluded should read the Scriptures and any of the many books about ‘out of body’ experiences. The details these people include are too compelling to be dismissed.

Heaven is too marvellous a place to take a chance on getting there. Hoping that our good works will open the door is a risky strategy as is ignoring death and hoping for the best. Assurance is what we all long for and as Christians we have that assurance.

Unfortunately many Christians are not only shaky about going to heaven but very shaky about what it will be like. I believe as we read the Bible and other books on the subject by authors grounded in the Scriptures we can start to get revelation on just how truly amazing heaven is.

Not only is it far better than our wildest imaginations – it is also too wonderful a place not to talk about to others. Everyone needs to know not just the reality of the wonders of heaven but also how to get there. As Christians that is both our responsibility and our joy. 

Heaven or hell

For God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world but to save the world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned but whoever does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.  John 3: 17 – 18.

Hell is not a word much in evidence these days except perhaps as a euphemism for a hard time; I had a hell of a day or it was hell.  However no one mentions hell as a place, a destination. It is considered at best politically incorrect or at worst downright rude to talk about hell.

Yet the reality is that hell is the eternal destination for most people because they have not chosen the alternative. Everyone will go to hell unless they receive God’s gift of eternity spent with him in the wonders of heaven. This gift comes free because Jesus paid for it completely.

No one wants to believe hell exists which is hardly surprising but if it does exist then people hope it will be a place of partying and doing everything ‘miserable sinners’ love to do together. Unfortunately nothing could be further from the truth.

The Bible makes it abundantly clear that hell is a place of eternal punishment and torment. The worst thing is that this will be away from God and everyone else. There is no partying in hell – partying is in heaven with Jesus, the angels and all the other believers. 

The tragedy is that no one needs go to hell. Everyone can go to heaven but only if they accept Jesus’ gift.  Most people hope to get to heaven by their good works but the truth is that no one can ever do enough to satisfy a perfect God – only Jesus did that.

As Randy Alcorn recounts in his book Edge of Eternity: I (Jesus) loved you as you were but I loved you too much to let you stay that way. Rather than give up on you, I gave myself up for you. I chose to go to hell for you rather than go to heaven without you. The gift I extended to you is free but not cheap. It costs you nothing. It cost me everything.

Christians used to be happy to talk about hell but I think it usually came liberally laced with condemnation, judgement and hypocrisy. No one wanted to listen to that.

People need to know how much God loves them and has a wonderful plan and purpose for their lives. They do not need or want to be told they are sinners – they know that. What they need to know is that there is a Saviour who came to rescue them from their sin and its consequence.

Christians who know the love of God and live in it are a powerful witness to those still struggling to make sense of life. They can talk about the terrors of hell and the wonders of heaven with Godly conviction and love.

Christians have been intimidated and become embarrassed to speak about hell for fear of offending people. The thing is though that thousands are going to hell daily because we have been frightened into not talking about it.

Today I believe as Christians we need to learn afresh how to speak about heaven and hell in love and grace and talk about the wonderful gift  of eternal life in heaven that Jesus holds out to all who come to him.

I believe the Holy Spirit will help us if we trust him to be our teacher and guide. Let’s not be put off from declaring the truth but with great grace let’s promote truth about eternity as God gives us opportunity. 

Every good and perfect gift

We have nothing to give that didn't first come from your hand,

We have nothing to offer you which you did not provide

Every good, perfect gift comes from your kind and gracious heart

And all we do is give back to you what always has been yours.

Who has given to you that it should be paid back to him?

Who has given to you as if you needed anything?

To you and from you comes all things O Lord

And all we do is give back to you what always has been yours.     Matt Redman

We do truly come into the world with nothing and we leave taking nothing with us.  We arrive as naked babies and we depart leaving all we have accumulated over the years behind us.

In this materialistic world we place huge value on things, our possessions and who has got what. We admire the rich and their lifestyle and despise the poor. Yet as Christians we must get hold of the truth that everything we have comes from God’s kind and gracious heart.

‘The earth is the Lord’s and everything in it’ the Psalmist declares in Psalm 24:1. God and God alone is the Creator and whilst his creation may be very pleased with their efforts at creating things including wealth from what he has provided, the reality is that even these abilities come from him (Deuteronomy 8: 18).

When God gave Moses the instructions for building the tabernacle and all its furnishings, he anointed Bezalel ‘with skill, ability and knowledge in all kinds of crafts – to make artistic designs for work in gold, silver and bronze, to cut stones, to work in wood and to engage in all kinds of craftsmanship (Exodus 31: 3 – 5). Moreover God appointed Oholiab to help him. Their skills came from God.

It can be rather galling to think we are not as brilliant as we thought and that everything we have has not come from our own efforts. However actually getting hold of this truth that it all comes from God is very liberating. 

God has given us gifts and abilities because he wants us to use them both for our enjoyment and to bless others. If we let God use us, our abilities become liberated from what we can do to what God can do through us. I am sure Bezalel was amazed at what God enabled him to create.

Even in the area of wealth creation, God will use us to be a great blessing to all around us. We all know ‘it is more blessed to give than to receive’ (Acts 20:35) and it is indeed a great joy to give gifts or money. Our world desperately needs people who can handle wealth correctly and the first step in that is acknowledging it didn't come from us and our own labours in the first place. When we realise everything comes from God, it is so much easier to pass it on to others, knowing that God will always pour in where we have poured out.

The Bible is full of assurances that God will satisfy our desires as we trust him (Psalm 37: 4 and 145: 19 as examples). We never need fear being generous.

We have nothing to offer God that didn't come from him in the first place. Our very breath is a gift from God.  God wants to bless us with so much more but the key is to realise it all came from him and with thankful hearts try to become a giver with a heart like God’s because he is the ultimate Giver. 

Inheritance versus heritage

People will spend a lot of time and effort making sure they leave an inheritance for their children and family. They will work hard to leave their house, money, jewellery and possessions to those who will remain when they die.

However what is even more important is to not just leave an inheritance for our children but to leave a heritage. Heritage is something that is handed down to our ancestors and often it is non material. Family stories, practices, ways of doing things and faith. As Christians passing on our Christian faith is the best possible heritage we can leave our children and family.

One of the greatest blessings for a parent is to see their children and grandchildren living out a personal relationship with Jesus Christ for themselves not based on parental wishes or peer pressure but out of personal conviction. This is the heritage we would most like to pass on.

However the Christian faith is a choice and whilst we can do all we possibly can to pass it on; prayer, church, Bible teaching, lifestyle and so on, at the end of the day it is a personal decision for every individual. One of the greatest heartaches for parents is to see their children turn their back on the faith they were raised in.

Sometimes this may be for obvious reasons; family divorce or breakdown, parents whose faith is far removed from their lives, problems with other Christians or the shortcomings of the church. At other times it may just be the lure of the world and the pleasures that the world appears to hold.

I believe that what we do for the child not walking with God is the same as the one walking with the Lord; pray, bless and maintain good relationships. One of the saddest things is parents who fall out with their children because they have turned their backs on their faith.

God spoke powerfully to me from the title of a Joseph Garlington book Right or Reconciled. So often being right becomes the most important thing. However I believe maintaining relationship through reconciliation is far more important. We will never reach out to the lost whether in or out of our family by maintaining the moral and spiritual high ground that I am right and you are wrong.

If we have brought our children up in the faith, our grown up children know what is right and wrong. They do not need parents going on about their life style choices. They need parents who love and accept them whom they can talk to.

I am not referring to teenagers who still need a firm but loving hand and help with their choices till they have developed a mature judgement. Teenagers who yell at their parents ‘you don’t trust me’ are quite right. We should not trust our youngsters to make mature decisions at this point in their lives. It takes time and maturity to develop good judgement.

However even as adults our children may do things we do not consider appropriate such as living with partners or having sex outside marriage. Our children know this. What they need is our acceptance based on the fact that they and we both know what we think their choice.

In time these children of ours will return to their faith if we are diligent in prayer and loving in attitude. Even if we never see it ourselves, I firmly believe that we can all not only leave an inheritance of material possessions but also a heritage of Christian faith for our family members.

Fullness of joy

You will show me the path of life;
In Your presence is fullness of joy;
At Your right hand are pleasures forevermore. Psalm 16: 11 NKJ

Can you imagine what fullness of joy is like? Can you imagine overflowing with joy, so wonderful, so amazing that it feels like you’re going to burst?

Joy like that is found in God’s presence because God is a joyous God. He is not as Dallas Willard says, ‘a morose and miserable monarch, a frustrated and petty parent or a policeman on the prowl.’  Instead ‘he is the most joyous being in the universe. The abundance of his love and generosity is inseparable from his infinite joy.’

Eagle Nebula - 6 trillion miles top to bottom

There can be times when we gaze at something in nature – a beautiful bird or exotic fish, a breathtaking mountain or seascape and we are filled with wonder and joy. God continuously looks on these things and much else besides. He sees the extent of the universe he created, those incredible images of nebula, pulsars, stars and planets. He hears the music of the stars and he sees us and takes joy in our stumbling steps of faith, wonder and adoration of the indescribable Creator of the unimaginable creation. No wonder God is a joyous being.

If anyone ever gets a glimpse of heaven the one thing they all talk about is the love and joy they experienced. It was so marvellous they didn’t want to return and the reason it was so marvellous was because of the manifest presence of God – all loving and full of joy.

God wants us to abide in his love which brings great joy. There are too many Christians who are miserable. However the world does not need Christians who walk in a superficial temporary happiness but those who abide in the deep joy that comes from spending time in his presence.

God our wonderful provider

‘Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat or drink; or about your body, what you will wear. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothes? Look at the birds of the air; they do not sow or reap or store away in barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not much more valuable than they?  Can any one of you by worrying add a single hour to your life?

‘And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labour or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendour was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you – you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, “What shall we eat?” or “What shall we drink?” or “What shall we wear?” For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well. Matthew 6: 25 – 33

When our sons were younger, they used to burst in through the front door after school and cry, ‘Feed me!’ They then rushed to the fridge and cupboard to rootle around till they found what they wanted to eat and drink.

There was no hanging back cautiously to see if it was alright to come into the house or to raid the fridge. They didn't beg or plead with me. This was their home, I was their mother and therefore it was perfectly acceptable to expect to be fed without any begging or argument. 

Not only so but provision was assured. Apart from the odd day when I may not have been shopping, it was expected that food would be on hand.  Children expect their parents to feed them as well as protect and shelter them.

Why then as Christians do we have so much trouble relying on God to be our heavenly provider?  He is our Father and wants to look after us just as we want to look after our children. Most parents would be horrified if their children spurned their provision and went off to the shops to buy their own things. It is one of the joys of parenthood to provide for your children.

God does not want us worrying about money, food, clothes, jobs, homes and so on. We can expect God to provide these. That is his privilege as our Father and it is our privilege to receive them as his children with thankful hearts.

The key to this provision is to seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; to put God, his ways, his lifestyle above all else. At the start of a new year let’s resolve to seek God in all we do and to stop worrying about life and let God be the provider he longs to be.