So, if you think you are
standing firm, be careful that you don’t fall! I Corinthians 10: 12
Do not
judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way as you judge others, you
will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you.
Matthew 7: 1 – 2
We know
it takes only ‘faith as small as a mustard seed and you can say to this mountain, “Move from here to there,”
and it will move (Matthew 17: 20) but the converse is also true. It can
take one tiny seed of criticism, judgment, doubt and unbelief to grow into
something very unhealthy.
We know
from our recent time in South Africa what a terrible and destructive fire can
come from one small spark. James tells
us that ‘a great forest can be set on
fire by a small spark and the tongue is a fire, a world of evil among the parts
of the body’ (James 3: 5 – 6).
I have
been dismayed recently by how one small negative remark about another person can
grow into a feeling of deep distrust and suspicion about that person based on
nothing more than another's idle remark.
Even
worse I found out how quickly I can slip into terrible criticism and judgment
of others based on what I have read in the media or seen on television. It feels
so justifiable when leaders are corrupt and hypocritical or worse when the body
of Christ starts taking large chunks out of one another, to feel angry and self-righteous.
However
I quickly came to realise I was standing right on the edge of a slippery slope
only a small step away from falling right over. Fortunately God reminded me
from reading Steve Backlund’s book Igniting
Faith in 40 days that ‘criticism and condemnation will actually decrease
personal and corporate faith.’ Chastened I backed down from my anger and self-righteousness
and extended the grace I like to receive but find hard to give.
So what
do we do when faced by sin and shortcomings in those who we feel should know
and behave better? Pray. Pray for them that God would open their eyes, not
because we are right and they are wrong but because if they are sinning then
they are damaging themselves as well as the church or nation.
We must
forgive especially if it is personal and then hand the people to God for his righteous
workings in their lives. Finally we must bless them. This moves us from the low
ground of hatred and anger, judgment and criticism to the higher ground of
grace. It sets us free and moves us away from the edge of self-righteousness
which leads down the slippery slope to hypocrisy.
Jesus
is our perfect example. Nailed to the cross, crucified as a common criminal yet
having done nothing wrong, having spent an exemplary life of doing good to
others he forgave those who were wronging him. Jesus life was a life of love
and grace. He said ‘For I did not come to judge
the world, but to save the world’
John 12: 47.
Next
time the small seed of criticism and judgement gets sown in your heart whether
by yourself or others, weed it out quickly. Set yourself free. Let’s live the life of love and grace that Jesus
won for us on the cross.